【-Feature 】 someone in a suit on a little Plastron, if you find later in time, perhaps because this little and make a good impression on your exception; always on your cold somebody suddenly your smiling face, it might be you improve relations of a good start; if you put a date time 8: 30 pm to 8: 35 minutes, maybe it will make you sit up and take note of others ... Don't look down on these communication details! it is often the precursor of communication has changed, it often is effortless to obtain communication of good opportunities for success, it often is stirring the interpersonal relationship "like" the "two"! remember that communication is a lot of nuances.
Intentions to mining and the praise of others "proud, small for" enables you to build on the ground, simply a popularity building.
1. praise others "proud little for"
Everyone, including those who are humble person and loss of self-esteem, who has made them proud that make the lass of "flash point" can be very small, so small that only he himself knew that even he found nothing. These small "proud" may be made, such as is good at making delicious sweet and sour fish, good at collapse all kinds of paper airplane, folk tales, folk Hunanese quite some research, etc. If you have these little strengths be praised, is sure to make them happy. You know, from the perspective gained popularity, praised the little strengths than praise known advantages more effective.
Chen new first time sit Liu master open car. That was when rush hours, traffic congestion on the road, but Liu master car stability but not slowly. New openings at this time, Chen said: "Liu master, you are in such circumstances can drive so fast, it's not easy, really means!" Imagine this heartfelt admiration, make Willow Cook very happy. Because he really driving skill, especially in the busy roads to travel even has its own peculiarities, Chen new sat in his car has never been such a compliment. This thing of the past 10 years, Liu master on the scene at that time, and often also clung to compliment the new Chan foresight.
Small Office can do a great article. Intentions to mining and the praise of others "proud little as" well, don't look at their small, small and bigger, and is also a great communication skills and the time and not many people have. If you have this set of Kung Fu, to keep you on the ground, simply put up a popularity building.
2, remember others "random words"
Everyone's discourse is not speak the golden rule, do not speak the elegant, some words said, not long before the prophets will forget, or no longer have to pay attention to it. This article has a lot of random words. If you filed a timely adjustment to his previous remarks such as: "you said ... So far I still fresh. "Someone will surely because of your attention and pleased, that you are a careful person, one can have a big as a man, a very caring person. If you will not only remember others free discourse, but also according to his words at random, it will be more effective.
One day, Xiao Zhang happily give old Yin sent a major package taste Heung-pickled Toon. Send Joe said: "when you I just came back from home, the previously promised you take home specialties to give you. "By Xiao Zhang say, come mind only old yin, half a year ago two people drank, Xiao Zhang said" our home specialities pickled toona, tastes great, "but then went on to play the old yin said:" well, you go back to my hometown to visit relatives when I take a bag! " In fact, it's just a joke, that is forgotten. Up to now, Xiao Zhang solemnly to pickled Toon came, it was moved to the old yin, two human psychological distance is significantly reduced.
"Scrap gold" can also be extracted from the bright rays of gold! note and remember others free discourse, it actually is "a pile of gold ore", if mining correctly, the "popularity of gold" will make you very wealthy. Other people's free speech is subtle, but is a lot to do.
3. do some other small things "accidents"
Germany a bank is famous for its world of advertising, it is so wrote: you have your day, we take care of the details for you. Details? it is often the little things of people accidentally. It is said that after the publication of advertisements, the credibility of the Bank. Is not an organization so that people who pay special attention to detail, ability to timely make others unexpected things would make it particularly at ease, not trustworthy? do something unexpected things, others are plump yourself an important move operation.
Song Yang in he's just elected a mayor, he delivered a fascinating ambiguity of his inaugural address, aroused applause. A fate he congratulated before the deputies. Song Yang said: "Yes, we have a total of 18 times in the Palm of the drum. "The representative immediately went to check the record of the meeting, are you sure that's right, song Yang Mayor figures are very accurate. Obviously, the song Yang in speech, carefully wrote down the frequency of meeting of applause. Because of this, the participants have informed the public on this new mayors vote to admire. People think, so wise mayor since even the small details are noticed, there will be something to this city of useful things will fall in the Mayor's sight? I believe that the Mayor must be able to give his full attention to each and every citizen of joy and suffering, I believe song Yang will lead the public to glory.
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